"Can I get Jasiah this weekend?"
Tina just texted me that….
I’m working on a response and got this so far,
I know that Jasiah loves you and loves going over there and I would never want to break that apart. I know that you no longer respect me or my parenting which is fine, but I need you to respect Jasiah in order for him to continue to be allowed over there. Any interrogation questions about what goes on at home is unacceptable and talking to a child about adult matters is unnecessary. He, at 3, does not need to be worried about adult matters such as who YOU do or don’t like and what you do or don’t agree with. In order for him to come over, I need to know that you are just going to enjoy him and not bring up old things, ask him question after question and not discuss adult topics with him. If those boundaries can not be accept then there is really no need for him to go over there.